Be Prepared… this is a rant… 🙂
Do you have those people in your life that make decisions without contemplating how it may have an effect on others? And then once they execute said decision they are confused and taken aback when people are upset by those decisions.
I simply can’t wrap my head around how clueless some people can be! Most of the time this person will get upset with YOU for being affected by it, because it of course was nothing, not a big deal. AND THEN! When they finally do come to terms with the fact that they may have made a mistake, they apologize, usually for the wrong thing! It’s as if they can’t comprehend the full extent of their actions. Or they simply are convinced the justification for their actions should be enough to make you OK with it. Really? Are people really that disrespectful? That unaware of how deeply they can harm people?
Now this is more detrimental when you toss in love. If you love someone who treats you like this expect an excessive and possibly unnecessary level of anger. Be prepared for irrational thought! It’s probably best to disappear for a day or two. Come back to it when you can fully dissolve what is really bugging you. The reason why I say disappear from someone you love for a day or two, is simply because you may love this person but they are not “yours” anymore. Or perhaps never were.